Jenny Han’s The Summer I Turned Pretty, tells the story of almost 16 year old Belly and her family and friends that spend each summer at the beach. Just moms, dads only come out occasionally and not at all this year, and the kids. Belly is the youngest and only girl so has often been excluded from the fun parties that have been happening every year. This year is different. She’s turned pretty. She’s more confident. She’s not just a girl, but almost a woman now. This is the summer she’s been waiting for. There’s crushes she’s had forever and new loves. Grudges and jealousy all set on a beautiful beach with bonfires.
Easy, fun read about a 16 year old becoming a woman. It was written from a place of truth that it reminded me of being young and suddenly being able to get the boys to pay attention.
Read July 2019
Liane Moriarty had Nine Perfect Strangers meet at Tranquillum House to change their life. They all aren’t strangers, one couple and a family of 3 are included in their quest for betterment. All are in a remote health spa for a 10 day cleanse which they willingly signed up for. Once there, it seems not many read the fine print about the requirements to participate; days of silence, mandatory mediations, dietary restrictions. And then the real work began.
This was a page turner from the begging. Moriarty tells the story from everyone’s perspective, including each’s opinion about each other. It starts off as a gossipy fun novel that takes a wicked turn.
Great read! Read in 2 days!
Read June 2019.
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie writes so passionately about love and culture in Americanah. Ifemulu and Obinze meet as teens in Nigeria, both full of optimism for their future and love for each other. Trying to attend an university within a country under military rule becomes too difficult, Ifemulu is able to travel to America to complete her education. Obinze isn’t as lucky and tries to illegally live in Britain. Both travel roads of immigrants everywhere with varying degrees of success. They both find success, but feel that they aren’t living the life they wanted.
Years after their break-up, they reach out to one another from afar. During this love story, both have to deal with racism and being the other in another country. Adichie dives into race relations and differences from both perspectives. I feel like I learned a lot especially from Ifemulu’s time in American and her views on American culture and racism.
Interesting, educational read. Read March 2019
Jenny Nordberg tells a secret side of Afghanistan culture, the bacha posh. In The Underground Girls of Kabul – In search of a hidden resistance in Afghanistan, Nordberg explores a culture that devalues girls and oppresses women, and what happens when there aren’t enough boys. Jenny Nordberg covers Afghanistan when she learns the little boy of her interviewee is actually a little girl. When investigating why, she uncovers so many cultural norms that restrict girls and condemn families without and sons. Afghanistan is a country that’s been at war for more years than not in recent history, but no matter who’s in charge, women are the lowest of society. So what’s a family to do to gain respect, to help run their family story, to run errands when the husband is at work? They often turn little girls into boys, who have more freedom and power than the women of the households.
This was such an interesting book. And such a strange world where a fake boy is better than a real girl. Its heartbreaking for the bacha posh who want to stay as they are. Its heartbreaking for the sisters and mothers to see a bacha posh be treated better than they are. And more heartbreaking is that I don’t know if there’s any help for these women and girls in a culture that seems to hate them. Its hard to understand how a society can hate half the population. Even the women seem to bring the other women down.
Read January 2019
Pinch Bavinsky lives his entire life in the shadow of his famous father, Bear Bavinksy. The Italian Teacher by Tom Rachman, documents Pinch’s life from a young boy to his death, and how his desire to please his father dictates so many choices in his life. Bear is central to the story and to the lives of everyone in his large, extended family. His art, his life, his career is whats most important to him, and to extension everyone else. Pinch feels like a failure compared to his father and ends up living a shadow life but failing at that too.
This was a great read! Following Pinch following Bear through the art world and how artists are made or not by reputation more than skill sometimes. And Bear’s reputation is what he holds most dear in this world. In the end, Pinch’s final Fuck You to Bear is unbelievable and totally deserved.
Read December 2018
I read Claire Messud’s The Burning Girl awhile ago, and it didn’t really stick with me. I liked it at the time and there’s a lot of good scenes with Julia and Cassie as they grow and grow apart from middle school to high school. Many of the scenes made me cringe thinking back on my own adolescence and loosing friendships over big and little things. But the end of the novel made me so sad about how people can hide things and even looking back, you can’t know for sure what was happening.
Read October 2018
Saints for All Occasions tells the story of two sisters who left Ireland for more opportunity in the New World. J. Courtney Sullivan isn’t afraid to show the ugly side of being seen as proper and what people will do to protect themselves from public scorn, Nora and Theresa felt obligations to one another that built resentment and separation. The Catholic church and their belief about illegitimate children changed both sisters’ lives.
Nora remained in Boston, married, and raised a family. Theresa cut ties, moved to NYC and eventually became a nun. All affected by a youthful “mistake”.
Sullivan gets into families and rips them apart so we can see it for what they are. Everyone trying to right by others, but the secrecy can do nothing but bring pain.
Read August 2018