Fleishman is in Trouble

Fleishman is in Trouble by Taffy Brodesser-Akner tells the story about Toby Fleishman, who is in trouble. Newly divorced, Fleishman discovers what it means to be a middle-aged, reasonable attractive, although on the shorter side, single male in a new digital dating world. Sex seems to come easier than it did during his marriage to Rachel. He seems to be getting a handle on his new life, although with much bitterness towards the ending on his relationship. Then Rachel drops the kids off at his house, unannounced, and disappears. Toby cannot reach her by phone, at her apartment, or her assistant.

This is an interesting story where we hear one-side of the relationship for a good chunk of the book before seeing another side. Toby is so self-involved that he never saw what was happening in his relationship unless it was happening to him.

Funny, sad, but ultimately a true look into the breakdown of a relationship.

Read December 2019

Side note: This was the 52nd book of 2019. I was worried I didn’t hit the mark (again) but then remember I read this in early December and never wrote it down! So yea! Hopefully 2020 will bring lots of new, exciting stories!

The Water Cure

The Water Cure, by Sophie Mackintosh, tells the end of days of what seemed like a cult. King, the father or father figure, disappears at the start of the novel. Will he be gone days, weeks, or forever. Remaining behind are King’s wife and 3 daughters. Each alone on this island that had once healed many woman looking for the water cure. The narrators are not the most reliable since they have suffered under King’s delusional view of the world and how unsafe it is. When 3 strangers arrive and King remains gone, the girls begin to change and how they are navigating their world.

Interesting, creepy novel. Great read.

Read November 2019.

The Last Romantics

Tara Conklin dissects a family in The Last Romantics. After their father’s death, the Skinner children raise themselves until their mother is able to return to them. These wild, feral years cement their characters for the rest of their lives as well as determine their roles within the family.

There’s a lot of love between the kids, but as they grow up and move away they find it harder to relate to one another except with their weakness. Always in need of money. Or a people pleaser. Their past defined their future in many ways and their relationships with one another can change, but what damage comes out of it.

Great storytelling with suspense about a downfall in the Skinner family.

Read September 2019

The Summer I Turned Pretty

Jenny Han’s The Summer I Turned Pretty, tells the story of almost 16 year old Belly and her family and friends that spend each summer at the beach. Just moms, dads only come out occasionally and not at all this year, and the kids. Belly is the youngest and only girl so has often been excluded from the fun parties that have been happening every year. This year is different. She’s turned pretty. She’s more confident. She’s not just a girl, but almost a woman now. This is the summer she’s been waiting for. There’s crushes she’s had forever and new loves. Grudges and jealousy all set on a beautiful beach with bonfires.

Easy, fun read about a 16 year old becoming a woman. It was written from a place of truth that it reminded me of being young and suddenly being able to get the boys to pay attention.

Read July 2019

Nine Perfect Strangers

Liane Moriarty had Nine Perfect Strangers meet at Tranquillum House to change their life. They all aren’t strangers, one couple and a family of 3 are included in their quest for betterment. All are in a remote health spa for a 10 day cleanse which they willingly signed up for. Once there, it seems not many read the fine print about the requirements to participate; days of silence, mandatory mediations, dietary restrictions. And then the real work began.

This was a page turner from the begining. Moriarty tells the story from everyone’s perspective, including each’s opinion about each other. It starts off as a gossipy fun novel that takes a wicked turn.

Great read! Read in 2 days!

Read June 2019.

Americanah

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie writes so passionately about love and culture in Americanah.  Ifemulu and Obinze meet as teens in Nigeria, both full of optimism for their future and love for each other. Trying to attend an university within a country under military rule becomes too difficult, Ifemulu is able to travel to America to complete her education. Obinze isn’t as lucky and tries to illegally live in Britain. Both travel roads of immigrants everywhere with varying degrees of success. They both find success, but feel that they aren’t living the life they wanted.

Years after their break-up, they reach out to one another from afar. During this love story, both have to deal with racism and being the other in another country. Adichie dives into race relations and differences from both perspectives. I feel like I learned a lot especially from Ifemulu’s time in American and her views  on American culture and racism.

Interesting, educational read. Read March 2019

The Underground Girls of Kabul- in search of a hidden resistance in Afghanistan

Jenny Nordberg tells a secret side of Afghanistan culture, the bacha posh. In The Underground Girls of Kabul – In search of a hidden resistance in Afghanistan, Nordberg explores a culture that devalues girls and oppresses women, and what happens when there aren’t enough boys. Jenny Nordberg covers Afghanistan when she learns the little boy of her interviewee is actually a little girl. When investigating why, she uncovers so many cultural norms that restrict girls and condemn families without and sons. Afghanistan is a country that’s been at war for more years than not in recent history, but no matter who’s in charge, women are the lowest of society. So what’s a family to do to gain respect, to help run their family story, to run errands when the husband is at work? They often turn little girls into boys, who have more freedom and power than the women of the households.

This was such an interesting book. And such a strange world where a fake boy is better than a real girl. Its heartbreaking for the bacha posh who want to stay as they are. Its heartbreaking for the sisters and mothers to see a bacha posh be treated better than they are. And more heartbreaking is that I don’t know if there’s any help for these women and girls in a culture that seems to hate them. Its hard to understand how a society can hate half the population. Even the women seem to bring the other women down.

Read January 2019